Grief and Neglect

Has it been long enough between my posts?

I know (like so many other things) that this blog has turned into another one of those things that once started have become quickly forgotten and neglected.

I know now that this blog definitely won’t be in chronological order. There has been, is, and will be way too much for me to talk about things actually in order. The most significant event since my last post without doubt has been our miscarriage. We thought we were incredibly lucky. When we got pregnant on our very first IUI cycle we joked aloud that it couldn’t be that easy on us. Things are never that easy on us. They weren’t.

My wife had a miscarriage at seven weeks. It’s was devastating. That was October. Writing this now in June we’ve been through 4 unsuccessful IUI cycles and are right smack dab in an IVF cycle. W’e’ve experienced so much and there is so much I want to say but looking at my last posts I know my future posts won’t be chronological. Part of the reason I delayed and lagged in posting here again was I wanted to do it chronologically. I think now it’s better to actually get writing than too necessarily worry about the order.

There’s more to come in the future.


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